You Are Not Alone: Understanding and Healing from Postpartum Depression

                  Usually, I try to write about aspects of mental illness I either have experience with or have knowledge about. Since today is Mother’s Day, I thought it might be a good time to discuss postpartum depression. 

According to PostpartumDepression.org about 1in 8 women experience symptoms of postpartum depression after giving birth. The rate could be as high as 1 in 5 women in some US states. When looking at the numbers this could mean that approximately 460.000 women in the US experience postpartum depression. PostpartumDepression.org notes that these numbers only pertain to live births. Women who experience a miscarriage or stillbirth can also develop depression. So, if we include all these women, the number of women experiencing postpartum depression increases. Also of note, is that new fathers and same-sex partners can experience depression. The likelihood of a father or same-sex partner experiencing depression increases if the mother experiences postpartum depression. PostpartumDepression.org explores the statistics on postpartum depression more thoroughly, if you are interested.

Postpartum depression (PPD) is “a form of major depression and a mental health disorder that affects women after childbirth. Each person with postpartum depression may experience different symptoms. There are several symptoms that may be present. These include: 

·      Mood swings

·      Trouble sleeping or oversleeping

·      Changes in appetite

·      Anger and irritability

·      Feelings of worthlessness

·      Moderate to major depression

·      Fatigue

·      Excessive crying

·      Inability to bond with the new baby

·      Anxiety, worry, and/or fear

·      Loss of interest in activities once enjoyed

·      Withdrawing from friends and family

 

Symptoms usually develop in the first few weeks after birth and may last up to six months to a year. It is possible for symptoms to develop before birth. While symptoms generally last only up to six months after childbirth, if left untreated, PPD can become a chronic depressive disorder. Because PPD has many forms and symptoms it is difficult to isolate a specific cause. It is important to understand that postpartum depression is not caused by anything the mother does. Some possible causes of postpartum depression include:

·      Changes in hormone levels

·      Sleep deprivation

·      Physical Body Changes

·      Postpartum stress and worry

·      Birth trauma

·      Life stressors

 

Risk factors for postpartum depression are varied. It is possible to have genetic or medical risk factors. There are environmental risk factors, which might include low social support. Mental or emotional risk factors include recent stress or abusive relationships. Unplanned pregnancy and substance abuse can also be risk factors. 

From a mental and emotional standpoint, it is important to pay attention to certain things. Be aware of stressful events in your life. A woman should get support if she has experienced a stressful event such as the loss of a job or the death or a loved one. Fears or worry over finances can be add to risk. The lack of a support system can be another risk factor.

                  When pregnant and after childbirth women need to find time for self-care. They should find time to socialize or be with others. The social support of a partner, friends, and family members is an important factor in reducing risk. It is important that a woman receives support if she is in is in a physically or emotionally abusive relationship.

                  How is postpartum depression treated? According to PostpartumDepression.org, psychotherapy is the standard treatment for postpartum depression. This is known as “talk therapy”. In some cases, antidepressants are prescribed. Many antidepressants are safe during breastfeeding. However, this is something to be discussed with your doctor and beyond the scope of this blog post. Support groups can also help those suffering from postpartum depression. If postpartum depression becomes severe or if postpartum psychosis develops, inpatient treatment may be necessary. 

                  Postpartum psychosis is a mental health emergency. According to the Cleveland Clinic, postpartum psychosis affects the mother’s sense of reality. It causes hallucinations, delusions, paranoia, and other behavior changes. If the case is severe, there is a risk that the mother may try to harm herself or her newborn. Treatment is important. Postpartum psychosis is treatable. Earlier treatment leads to better outcomes. If a mother is experiencing any of the above signs it is important to seek help immediately. This can include calling 911 if the woman or baby is in danger. Another important thing to remember is that with treatment the mother can recover. 

                  Postpartum depression is treatable. It is important that the woman seek treatment. Her loved ones and friends should take this seriously and understand that the depression is real and what the woman is experiencing is real. The OB/GYN can provide resources and referrals. A psychologist, psychiatrist, therapist, or primary care provider can also be contacted for support. Women can recover from postpartum depression. I mentioned earlier that the father or same-sex partner can experience postpartum depression. They need to seek treatment, too. 

                  On this Mother’s Day I would like to encourage all mothers to ensure that they give themselves grace. Find time for self-care. Remember that your health, including your mental health is important. To all the mothers, fathers, same sex partners who are or who suffered from postpartum depression, to all the mothers who have experienced depression whether diagnosed or not, and to all the mothers who have had moments of struggle, you are seen, you are heard, and you will be okay. 

 

 

 

How Therapy Helped Me Survive Depression: Why Mental Health Treatment Matters

                  Therapy has been a part of my life for over three decades. That may seem like it has been ineffective. The opposite is true. Therapy is a lifeline and a changing force for me. I process my emotions and struggles in therapy. I work on life issues that arise. I receive support when my depression pushes me into wanting to harm myself. I know my psychologist will guide me into feeling better. Therapy is not a magic potion. It is workspace. Being in therapy requires a commitment. Sometimes it takes time develop that commitment, but it is worth the time it takes. 

                  Let’s look at why people go to therapy, how therapy can help, and what a therapy session might be like. Keep in mind that there are different types of therapy. Different people find certain types of therapy more effective than others. In a way it is similar to different medications working better for different people. We have a right to find the type of therapy and the therapist that works best for us. 

                  First, we should define therapy. Therapy is a structured form of treatment for mental illness. In therapy a trained mental health professional helps a person understand, manage, and improve their thoughts, emotions, behaviors, and overall well-being. The goal of therapy is larger than just a temporary fix, although there are often times when the focus of a therapy session needs to be on the short-term, especially if the person is experiencing a crisis. One of the overarching goals of therapy is improve the quality of a person’s life over time. Embedded in this is learning how to live with depression or other mental illness and how to utilize forms of treatment and coping strategies.

Reasons Why a Person Might Go to Therapy

                  There are many reasons a person may choose to go to therapy. Therapy is an important part of most treatment plans for depression and other mental illnesses. For me it has been vital. I would not be where I am today, able to write this blog, or able to live my life, without therapy. 

                  Therapy can help a person learn about their mental illness and how it affects them. This is an important reason for going to therapy. Living with a mental illness is difficult. There is a lot we need to learn about our illness. Understanding our illness and how it affects us allows us to manage our illness more effectively. A good therapist will guide us through gaining this understanding.

                  Dealing with emotional distress is another reason to go to therapy. The therapist will help a person cope with the distress. There are many types of emotional distress. It might be suicidal thoughts, panic attacks, anxiety, persistent sadness, hopelessness, or emptiness. In therapy a person will receive support coping with depression, anxiety, mania, anger, or trauma. 

                  Therapy can address grief. A person might go to therapy to address low-self-esteem or feelings of worthlessness. A therapist might also address anger, mood swings, or emotional numbness. Therapy is an important part of dealing with thoughts of self-harm or suicide.  Substance abuse can be addressed in therapy. 

                  A person does not need a diagnosis to benefit from therapy. Sometimes people just need a little help. Therapy can provide support when a person is struggling.

                  If a person has a mental health condition, therapy, in some form, is often a part of the treatment plan.  These diagnoses would include major depressive disorder, anxiety disorders obsessive-compulsive disorder, post-traumatic stress disorder, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, and other mental diagnoses. Therapy helps people learn to manage these disorders. 

A Look at a Therapy Session

                  In the first appointment the therapist will spend some time getting to know the person and their needs. First, the therapist will ask about the person’s needs and concerns. The first session is used to begin to establish trust. The therapist will likely take a history. They will ask about current symptoms, emotions, and struggles. The therapist will ask about past therapy experiences. A good therapist with explain how the therapy will work and explain their treatment approach. A plan for session frequency and goals for therapy will be established. 

                  Later appointments will vary depending on the type of therapy being provided. Many therapy sessions are centered around discussions between the therapist and the person receiving therapy. Usually, a focus is established to guide the session. This might look like the person expressing a need and the therapist guiding a discussion and providing support. Often, the therapist and person will talk through emotions, experiences, or challenges. Together they work on coping strategies and problem-solving skills. The therapist may assist the person in working through unhealthy thought patterns and behaviors. Work on interpersonal relationships might be a part of therapy. Sessions vary depending on the person’s need. Those needs can change over time. 

                  Therapy is a two-way process. It requires work from both the person receiving therapy and the therapist. Both need to be active participants. In this process the therapist provides guidance and expertise, while the person should do their best to be open and share what they are experiencing and what they need. When a person is struggling with depression or other mental illness this can be difficul. In these moments being present and doing the best you can is important. It is important for the therapist to create a safe, structured environment where discussions can take place. The therapist can provide support and guide the person. It is the therapist’s role to identify patterns in thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. They then provide coping skills, emotional regulation techniques, and communication strategies. The therapist can help the person practice these strategies. 

                  The person in therapy shares what they are going through. This would include experiences, symptoms, thoughts, and concerns. It is important for the person to be honest. No one needs to hide anything from a therapist. In therapy there is no judgment. A key to successful therapy is for the person to practice the coping skills, emotional regulation techniques, and communication strategies that are being taught. A person in therapy needs to consistently attend sessions, be willing to engage in sessions even if it takes some time to develop this ability, and be patient with the process. Healing takes time. It does not happen overnight.

                  As I mentioned it can time for the therapy to really feel like it is working. Both the therapist and the person receiving therapy need to build trust. Therapy is most effective when both sides have worked to build a trust and communication. It is important to remember that the person receiving therapy can say something to therapist if something feels uncomfortable or if they are not ready to discuss a certain topic. There is no one size fits all approach to therapy. This is why both sides need to work at develop the therapeutic relationship. The therapist may need to change certain approaches or provide different strategies.

                  Healing takes time and it takes work. Mental illnesses are rarely improved without effort. Mental illnesses are complex, but with effort the therapy experience can be healing. 

The Rights of a Person Receiving Therapy.

                  Just as a person in a physical health situation has rights, so does a person receiving mental health care. If something does not feel right in the therapy session, it is okay to make your thoughts known. It is also okay to look for the right therapist. Sometimes the fit is just not there. A person might not find the first therapist they see to be the right one. So, a person might need to try a few therapists to find the one they click with. That is okay. 

                  If you have health insurance, you can ask for a list of therapists covered under your plan. One way to find a therapist is to look through therapist directories. You can do this online. Psychology Today Therapist Finder is one source you can use. Another source is SAMHSA Treatment Locator. You can also ask a trusted healthcare provider. Often, a primary care provider can help you get started. 

                  It is okay to interview a therapist before committing. Ask them about their experience with your condition. You can ask about their approaches with your condition. It is okay to ask any questions you might have. 

                  It is also important consider things like insurance coverage, cost, language and cultural competence, and gender or identity preference. You might also need to consider in-person versus telehealth options. These are all important considerations. You want to make sure that the therapist is right for you in every area.

Final Thoughts

                  Therapy is important when you live with mental illness. I have been in therapy for decades. For me, therapy is an integral part of my treatment. It is my lifeline. Over the years my therapist and I have developed a relationship that allows trust on both ends. I know that I can trust him with anything I am experiencing. I think he knows that I would reach out to him if I had thoughts of harming myself. In fact, there have been times when I have reached out to him when my depression has pushed me to the point of wanting to hurt myself. The fact that he has been there has saved my life. I know this may sound like I am overexaggerating, but having a therapist and a mental health team you can rely on is so important. It can be lifesaving. 

 

What Living with Depression Really Feels Like (Things I Wish People Understood)

May is Mental Illness Awareness Month. I am going to start the month by sharing some things I wish people knew about living with depression. Knowing what it is like to live with depression is one of the first steps towards understanding what we live with, creating support systems, and hopefully build empathy. 

                  The first thing I want others to know about what it is like to live with depression is that it is a real illness. Depression is real. It is not something I can just snap out of. I feel a darkness wrap around me. The world around me fades into shadows. This is a real experience. I am not imaging it or making it up. Because it is real I cannot just “snap out of it.” I cannot just think positive and have the depression disappear. Depression is real. It is an illness, and no amount of positive thinking will make me feel better on its own.

                  Depression is not just sadness. I often feel numb. The numbness dulls my emotions. It takes away my ability to experience life. When I feel numb it is more than just the absence of feelings. There is a sense of nothingness. I feel empty inside. I am not sure that I can fully explain the numbness. How do I explain how I can hurt and be numb at the same time? I am aware that the depression is causing painful thoughts. At the same time a blanket of nothingness envelops me. It feels like being trapped. I want to experience positive emotions, but the numbness encapsulates me. This is one of the paradoxes of depression. We experience painful emotions while at the same time we are numb, unable to feel. 

                  Another way I experience depression is it dulls everything. This is similar to the numbness. Except when things are dulled, I still feel them to some degree. For example, my reaction to things that should make me happy is muted. I cannot get excited about things. I may smile, but inside there is still a dullness attached to my emotion. I rarely get excited. I have difficulty experiencing joy. I may want to enjoy an activity or interaction, but my depression holds me back. 

                  My motivation is impacted by depression. Just as it is difficult for me to get excited about something, it is difficult for me find the motivation to engage in things. Even simple things like washing the dishes or laundry require me to push myself into action. Sometimes self-care requires great effort. Depression tells me I cannot do things. It tells me it requires to much effort. Depression tells me to not get up from my recliner or to not get out of my bed. It is tough to push through these thoughts. Depression often wins. Its voice is loud. As a result, I often find myself sitting in my recliner or lying in my bed doing absolutely nothing.

                  Depression also causes a persistent low mood. I feel down. You may be wondering what I mean by feeling down. It is difficult to describe. When my mood is low, I have no mental or physical energy. Everything in. my life seems wrong. At times my low mood reaches a point where life does not seem worth living. That is when the suicidal ideation slithers in. Suicidal ideation is difficult because I never know when it will move beyond fleeting thoughts and become something that I want to act on. 

                  Part of living with depression means being able to know when I need to reach out for help. That requires understanding that depression is an illness and there are times when mental healthcare professionals need to intervene. It is not always easy to reach out for help. Sometimes my depression tells me I am not worthy of help. Other times it is pushing the suicidal ideation into a frenzy of thoughts that are difficult to interrupt long enough to ask for help. I have learned that I need to ask for help when the depression is weighing on me to the point of considering harming myself. Underneath the depression I know I want to live. The problem is how smothering and persistent depression can be. Often, I find that is best if I reach out for when I am on the edge of hurting myself. When the thoughts start, I know I need to let someone know. I might allow a single fleeting thought to pass and try to cope on my own, but when the thoughts start to gain traction, I know I need to ask for support.

I am one of the lucky ones who has support. There are many people living with depression and other mental illnesses who do not have support. I have been in that position. Life is extremely hard when you live with a mental illness and do not have support.      This is why mental illness awareness is so important. If more people are aware of what we are living with then more people can learn how to offer support.

Sometimes when my depression is getting heavier, I stop communicating with others. It is as if I go silent. During these times I often feel like no one will understand or as if I would be a burden to others if shared how I was feeling. Isolating myself seems like the right thing to do because then I do not burden anyone else. While I am isolating myself, I tend to feel worse, but it as if I cannot get myself to comprehend that I need to reach out. Depression tells me I deserve to be alone. It tells me that my that the darkness I feel surrounded by is a barrier that cannot be penetrated. The problem is that as I isolated my depression grows worse. I feel the pain of isolation, but I cannot get myself to reach out for support. Depression blocks any attempts on my part pushback.

Depression can also be physical. Sometimes I have unexplained pains when I am trapped in a bout of depression. It might be aches and pains. These are annoying especially when I know there is no physical cause for them. Because I also have an anxiety disorder, the two illness join to cause chest pain. For a long time, this pain would push me into a panic attack because I would believe I was having a heart attack. I had to learn that pain was different from the pain of a heart attack. Unfortunately, it took a few emergency room trips and visits to the cardiologist to learn that. Another physical manifestation I experience is pressure. Usually, I feel that pressure in my chest, but sometimes it is my head. I feel as if a heavy weight is pressing down on me. It is the weight of depression. That weight is painful. I feel as if I cannot get out from under it. That feeling of being trapped leads to a worsening of my depression and sometimes suicidal ideation.

Other physical manifestations of depression include fatigue and brain fog. Depression is tiring. I find myself wanting to sleep away the day. I hide under blankets as if they will protect me from the depression. I do not have the energy to get up. Even simple self-care activities require more energy than I can summon. I have learned that sometimes I need to allow myself to rest and other times I need to push through the fatigue and force myself to engage in self-care. Brian fog is another aspect of depression that does not receive a lot of attention. Sometimes I feel overwhelmed. I cannot focus on tasks. One of the ways brain fog manifests for me is my inability to read, an activity that when I am feeling well, I love. Brain fog leaves my brain too overwhelmed to do anything. Brain fog can make simple conversations difficult because I forget things or have trouble processing what someone else is saying.

As you can see depression is not just sadness. It is collection of symptoms that make life very difficult. I have struggled with depression for almost 40 years. I guess that makes depression a chronic illness. There are ways to treat depression. I am lucky that with the help of my psychologist and psychiatrist I found treatments that help me. Through those treatments I have found additional mental healthcare providers who understand me and provide support. Together all these providers create a team that helps me through my depression. Everyone deserves the kind of help I have found. That is why it is so important that we raise awareness about mental illness. May is a month dedicated to raising awareness about mental illness, but we cannot just limit our efforts to one month. We need to work year-round to raise awareness and to ensure that all who need support and care are receiving it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

How to Find Hope When You Feel Buried by Depression

        "Sometimes when you're in a dark place, you think you've been buried, but you've 

                            actually been planted." — Christine Caine

 

                  Depression, anxiety, and other mental illnesses often leave us in a dark place. I write about this often. The darkness is something I know well. When my depression is making its presence known, I feel a sense of darkness. My world darkens deeply. It is hard to function. As Caine states in the quote above, there is a sense of being buried. The darkness pushes me down. It is often suffocating. It is difficult to believe there is a way out of the darkness, but maybe Caine is onto something with the idea of being planted. 

                  Depression buries us in its negative thoughts, its hopelessness, and its suicidal ideation. It is an awful place to be. Unfortunately, I have spent a lot of time buried under the weight of depression. I know I am not alone. Depression impacts so many. As we struggle with the negative thoughts, the hopelessness, and the suicidal ideation we believe what depression is telling us. We need help climbing out of the darkness we have been buried in. 

                  Let’s consider the darkness as a place where we have been planted. We are like seeds surrounded by the darkness in the depths of the soil. In this place we cannot see the light that represents healing. We feel cold and suffocated. It does not feel like a good place. In this place we are the seed. A metaphorical definition of a seed is “a starting point”. It is intriguing to consider being at a starting point when we are buried in the darkness of depression, but what if we really are about to begin something. That something could be anything. There could be hope and possibility in the starting point. Perhaps, as we are struggling with our depression something is waiting for us on the other side of the darkness. 

                  The seed metaphor would need to include growth. Buried seeds grow into plants and flowers. What do we grow into when we are buried in the darkness of our depression? I think the answer is different for each of us. As I think about it, each time I have been buried at the deepest depths of my depression, I have survived. I have emerged from that darkness and lived. I think survival is growth from the seed. We hit rock bottom or hit any low spot. A seed can grow no matter the depth of its burial. So, whatever depths our depression takes us to, we can take root and grow into the light of healing.

                  Am I being overly optimistic? Part of me fears that I am being too hopeful. Depression is painful. It is dark. Still, each time I have been buried in the darkness I have emerged. I have grown. Sometimes I have emerged on my own. I have coping strategies that allow me to live with depression. Maybe these coping strategies are the water that feeds a seed and gives it life. My mental health team is another source of water. They encourage me and provide the hope that allows me to grow from that seed trapped in the darkness into who I am when I am feeling better. Sometimes they provide the intervention that I need to heal. Maybe their intervention is the fertilizer that I need to grow into the flower that I am supposed to be

In answer to my question, I do not believe I am being overly optimistic. I have learned from years of struggling with depression, from years of being buried in the darkness. I know what being buried feels like. I also know that I have grown into different flowers. In other words, I have overcome the depression many times and found hope in healing. As I think about the above quote, I understand that I grow from my depression. I am a stronger person each time I emerge from the darkness of the soil of depression.

                  I think the growth from the seed is part of life with depression. Like most things in nature there are cycles with depression. At times we are buried in the soil, which leaves us in the darkness. This is a painful time. With help from our coping strategies, our mental health providers, and our friends and loved ones, we grow out of the soil into the light of healing. Just like beautiful flowers we emerge from the soil. Delicate at first, we grow into flowers that reach for sunlight. As we reach for the sunlight we are living life. 

                  Depression buries us, but we can grow from this depth. We can heal when we live with depression. It is normal to go through cycles. Sometimes we are the seed buried in the soil and other times we are the blooming flower facing the sun. 

                  If you only take one thing from this post, I hope you take the idea that there is hope even in the darkness. We have been planted. We grow from of our darkness. Hope may seem out of reach when we are struggling with our depression, but hope is there. 

 

 

 

 

 

Elderly Mental Health Crisis: Why Millions Go Untreated—and What We Can Do

                  One area of mental health that at times might be overlooked is the mental health of the elderly. I am aware of this because my mother falls into the group of elderly with a mental health condition. She does not acknowledge that she has a mental health condition. Maybe it is because of the generation she grew up in. Maybe it is because she has Alzheimer’s. It could also just be her personality and personal beliefs. More than likely it is a combination of all three. 

                  As I think about my mom, I am left wondering how many elderly people struggle with their mental health and what is the impact of mental illness on the elderly. Worldwide about 14% of elderly people live with a mental illness. Estimates for the Unites States indicate that 5-7 million elderly people live with mental illness. This includes disorders such as depression and anxiety. Other estimates indicates that 3-4 million of those elderly people with mental illness go untreated. 

                  Let’s look at some reasons the elderly may not receive treatment for their mental illness. 

·      Symptoms get mistaken for normal aging

·      The stigma surrounding mental health

·      Limited access to geriatric mental health specialists

·      Physical health issues overshadow mental health concerns

 

A simple Google search indicates that depression is the most common mental

health condition among the elderly. Approximately 15-20% of the elderly experience depression symptoms. There are even more who experience symptoms but do not meet the criteria of a diagnosis. It is estimated that about half of the elderly with depression do not receive treatment. This lack of treatment may be due to an overlap in symptoms of depression and the signs of aging or physical illness. These might include fatigue and sleep issues. Another issue is that the elderly often do not report mood changes. 

                  Anxiety disorders are unrecognized in the elderly even more than depression. It is estimated that up to 70% of elderly with anxiety go untreated. Sometimes it is seen as a personality trait or lifelong worry. When I read about this I immediately thought about my grandmother. Everyone always said she was just a worrier. What if she really had an anxiety disorder that was left untreated? It pains me to look back and realize that maybe her life would have been easier with treatment. Another reason anxiety disorders are left untreated in the elderly is there is less screening for anxiety than depression. 

                  When we look at the big picture, it is obvious that many of the elderly are living with untreated mental illness. I only looked at depression and anxiety. There are other mental illnesses that impact the elderly. We need to do a better job of recognizing and treating mental illness in the elderly. How do we do this? 

                  First, we need to make it easier for the elderly to access care. Primary care specialists can increase screening efforts. Mental health care should be included in home health services and senior living centers, assisted living facilities, and nursing facilities. These actions can be as simple as a doctor or other physical health provider asking a few simple mental health questions and carefully listening to the answers. It is important to pay attention to what the person is not saying as well. In care facilities personnel should monitor the elderly’s participation in activities and whether they are being visited. Personnel should be aware of isolation. This could be a sign of depression. Having care providers who are aware of what is going on in the lives of the elderly is important. 

If the person is not in a care facility, some of this responsibility lies in the hands of the person’s family. I get how hard this can be. Sometimes my work and life obligations make it difficult for me to monitor my mother’s mental health. I cannot allow that to be an excuse. At the same time, I need to recognize that I need to take care of my own mental health when I am with my mother. This has been a difficult task. My mother is in a care facility, but I cannot leave the task of monitoring her mental health to the facility staff. So, I understand how families can lose track of their elderly loved ones. This is where another strategy to increase mental health care for the elderly becomes apparent. We need to support caregivers and families. This can include teaching them early signs of depression and anxiety. Caregivers and families also need support navigating insurance services. This is an indirect support of the elderly but is vital.

Reducing stigma is another way to ensure that the elderly are receiving mental health care. This can begin with campaigns to normalize mental health as a part of overall health. We need trusted individuals to be a part of this campaign. Today awareness about mental health is increasing. That is a great, but we need to remember to include the elderly when we raise awareness. They are often forgotten or overlooked. 

                  The elderly are often isolated whether by choice or circumstance. Isolation is a risk factor for mental illness. The elderly need to be encouraged to participate in family activities. At the same time families need to be encouraged to include their elderly loved ones. It is easy to overlook our elderly loved ones, but we need to recognize how important connection is for them. We can set up regular check-ins. To lessen the load on family members, they can set up a system where different people check in at different times. The check-ins can also be done by neighbors or friends. Encouraging the elderly to become involved in activities in senior centers, assisted living or care facilities is important. Just a little social interaction can go a long way. 

                  I do not like to be political on this blog, but I will say that changes need to be made to Medicare. These changes need expand coverage for mental health services. We also need to fund community-based programs. This will provide more opportunities for the elderly to improve their mental health. It may also be necessary to provide incentives for mental health care professionals to work with the elderly.

                  As we look at improving mental health in the elderly we need to focus on identification of mental illness, providing easier access to care, and reducing isolation. These are simple actions that we can take as a society. We need to become advocates for mental health care for the elderly.

                  Another thing for many of us to consider is that if we have a mental illness now, we will still have that mental illness when we are elderly. We are going to want continued access to care. Our mental illness and our need for care is not going to disappear. If we work for increased mental health care for the elderly now, we are ensuring that those care practices will be in place as we age 

                  I encourage you to check in on the elderly in your life. Even just friendly visits can make a difference. Be aware of the symptoms of mental illness:

Emotional and Mood Changes

·      Persistent sadness, emptiness, and hopelessness

·      Increased irritability or anger

·      Loss of interest in hobbies or social activities

Physical Symptoms

·      Unexplained aches and pains

·      Fatigue or low energy

·      Changes in sleep (too much or too little)

·      Appetite or weight changes

Cognitive and Behavioral Changes

·      Trouble concentrating or making decisions

·      Withdrawing from family, friends, or usual routines

·      Neglecting personal care (hygiene, medication, meals)

·      Slower movement or speech

Anxiety-Related Signs

·      Excessive worry or fear

·      Restlessness or feeling “on edge”

·      Avoiding certain places or activities

·      Physical signs like rapid heartbeat or shortness of breath

Serious Warning Signs

·      Thoughts of death or suicide

·      Feeling like a burden or that life has no purpose

·      Confusion that is new or sudden (check that this is not related to dementia)

 

These are basically the same signs of mental illness in anyone, which is why learning about mental illness is so important for all of us. As far as the elderly it is most important to notice changes in mood, behavior, energy levels, and social engagement. The mental health of the elderly is an important social issue. It is one that needs more attention. Share this post with anyone who might be in a position to help an elderly person with their mental health.